This is the first in a three-part series. Bottoms, have you ever been disappointed after kinky play? Have you ever not asked someone to play, or said no because you were too nervous about how it might go? Have you hesitated to end a scene or asked for an adjustment because of how it might […]
The One Thing That Keeps Us from Our Power
“OMG, I’ve gained so much weight—nobody’s gonna be attracted to me!” “What if I can’t get it up? Or I come too soon?” “My ass is NOT cute.” “Of course I’ll be laughed out of a dungeon! I don’t have any experience with this!” Has your inner voice taunted you with these kinds of messages? Or worse? What we […]


